Mental health struggles like depression, anxiety, grief, and trauma can feel overwhelming. Fortunately, The Social Work Concierge, LLC offers a variety of evidence-based approaches to provide relief. Among the most effective and widely used are Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). Each offers unique tools and perspectives that can be tailored to individual needs. This article explores the similarities and differences among these three therapies and how they can support healing from emotional pain.
Overview of Each Therapy
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT is a structured, short-term, goal-oriented therapy that focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors. Sessions typically last 3-6 months.
- Core idea: Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected.
- Goal: Modify distorted thinking to influence emotions and behaviors.
- Best for: Anxiety disorders, depression, phobias, OCD, PTSD.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
ACT combines mindfulness and behavioral change strategies to help clients accept what is out of their control and commit to actions that align with their values. ACT sessions typically last 6 months to a year.
- Core idea: Suffering is a natural part of life; psychological flexibility is key to well-being.
- Goal: Accept thoughts and feelings, defuse their power, and live according to values.
- Best for: Anxiety, depression, chronic pain, trauma, grief, existential distress.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Originally developed to treat Borderline Personality Disorder, DBT emphasizes emotional regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. It is a long-term therapy that can extend beyond 2 years.
- Core idea: Balance acceptance and change.
- Goal: Build skills to manage intense emotions, tolerate distress, and improve relationships.
- Best for: Emotional dysregulation, trauma, suicidal ideation, self-harm, BPD.
How Each Therapy Addresses Depression, Anxiety, Grief, and Trauma
| Issue | CBT | ACT | DBT |
|---|---|---|---|
| Depression | Targets negative thought patterns and promotes behavioral activation. | Encourages acceptance of depressive thoughts without judgment and focus on values-driven action. | Builds structure and emotional regulation skills; supports behavior change. |
| Anxiety | Restructures catastrophic thinking; uses exposure techniques. | Teaches cognitive defusion and mindfulness to relate differently to anxious thoughts. | Uses distress tolerance and mindfulness to calm physiological and emotional responses. |
| Grief | Helps identify unhelpful beliefs (e.g., guilt, “should” statements); supports reengagement with life. | Validates emotional pain while guiding clients toward meaningful living despite loss. | Encourages radical acceptance of loss and builds capacity to tolerate painful emotions. |
| Trauma | Addresses maladaptive thoughts and beliefs related to the trauma. | Encourages mindful presence, defusion from trauma-related thoughts, and self-compassion. | Offers grounding, emotion regulation, and interpersonal boundaries to manage post-traumatic symptoms. |
Key Similarities
- Evidence-Based: All three are supported by empirical research.
- Present-Focused: While trauma work may address the past, all aim to build tools for the present.
- Skills-Oriented: Each includes practical strategies for managing thoughts and emotions.
- Collaborative: Therapy is tailored through a strong client-therapist alliance.
Key Differences
| Dimension | CBT | ACT | DBT |
|---|---|---|---|
| View of Thoughts | Change distorted thoughts. | Accept thoughts without attachment. | Accept some thoughts; change others. |
| Core Techniques | Cognitive restructuring, exposure. | Mindfulness, defusion, values work. | Mindfulness, skills training, coaching. |
| Client Suitability | Analytical, structured clients. | Clients open to mindfulness/philosophy. | Clients with intense emotions or instability. |
| Therapist Role | Teacher/coach. | Guide toward values-based living. | Coach, teacher, and supportive ally. |
Which Therapy Is Right for You (or Your Client)?
Choosing between ACT, CBT, and DBT depends on personal preference, the nature of the struggle, and therapeutic goals:
- Choose CBT if you’re looking for a structured, logical approach that challenges negative thoughts head-on.
- Choose ACT if you want to learn how to sit with uncomfortable emotions and live a more values-driven life.
- Choose DBT if your emotions feel out of control, relationships are volatile, or you’re navigating trauma and high distress.
Conclusion
No single therapy fits everyone. ACT, CBT, and DBT each offer unique paths to healing. Whether you’re facing grief, battling anxiety, healing from trauma, or navigating the heaviness of depression, there is a therapeutic approach that honors your journey and helps you grow through it.
At The Social Work Concierge, LLC, we integrate these powerful modalities to with trauma-informed and liberation frameworks to meet the diverse needs of our clients with cultural humility and compassion. Healing should never be a privilege — that’s why the Social Work Concierge, LLC helps you make it a priority. Ask about our self-pay and sliding fee scale.
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